People are always subjected to an unavoidable social pressure.，Like home.、Married、The idea of having children is changing.。The American people who got married for the first time in middle age reached a record high.，Close to half 85 after the 30-year-old knot，The idea of marriage is not interested，So now the“Single aristocracy"More than ever.。Is this a bad thing?
Researcher Bella from the University of California, Santa Barbara·Dibora sigh Way，Ability to provide psychological information about single people、There are very few surveys of economic and emotional conditions.。
After reading 814 published papers, Bella said,，This happens because most research surveys focus on married people，And only single as a control.。
“Preconceived thoughts about loneliness tend to block the benefits of living alone.。"said Bella, a scientist at the University of California.。
She showed her findings at the 124th annual session of the American Psychological Conference.："It's time for a more accurate understanding of single people and single life.，That's the real strength and tenacity of single people.，And the things that make their lives meaningful.。”
From this simple research survey, Beira found that single life is not as gloomy as people think.，and exactly the opposite.。
She cites a study that shows that single people pay more attention to meaningful work than married people do.，Another study found that leftover men and parents、Siblings and friends are more intimate than married people.，And married people will eventually slowly return to their marriage.。
Single people have more autonomy，And more opportunities to realize self-appreciation.。
2009A study of lifelong single people shows，Lifelong singles are independent.，And this spirit of independence helps them cope with negative experiences.。For married people，The opposite is true.。
According to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics,，2014The United States has 124 million unmarried people over 16 years of age，This is more than half of the adult population in the United States.，The 1976 report by the Bureau of Labor Statistics of the United States shows that adult unmarried people account for only 37.4% of the adult population.。Follow this trend，We should be worried.，Or should you be happy?
Said Bella，Some people get married and live better.，But some people are better off being single.，There is no better way than the other one.。
If you're worried about being single,，Then you'd better try to make your single life full.，Use all your free time to explore、Know Yourself，A person to grow up well。The right time will come when the true。
No decision must be immutable.，After all, being single has so many benefits.。
"Americans are more able to pursue the best way of life for them than ever before.，There's no blueprint for a better life。"said Bella，"The most important thing is not what other people think.、How to say，But whether we can find the place and the space that really suits ourselves and can make us live our best.。”
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